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- An Election Poem
- Yes Sir, Thank You Very Much!
- Sharing Wonderful News
- Hadith on Hatred: Beware of the diseases of former peoples, Envy and Hatred
- The Last Sermon of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him)
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An Election Poem
An Election Poem
As the election drawing near, here is what I feel I should do on the 5th of May 2013, this Sunday. May God bless us all, amen... ---------------------------------------  Dear friends,
Do remember that... Love is the virtue of the Heart, Sincerity is the virtue of the Mind, Decision is virtue of the Will, Courage is the virtue of the Spirit.* And with that in mind.... I have made the Decision, Not from anger or frustration, But coming from the deep Love for my country, And its better future, To seek Sincere and Courageous leaders, Whom I believe able to make Malaysia, A better place to live in. For me. For you. For us all. *Words of Frank Floyd Wright
Copyright © Sis Zabrina 2013
Dr Zabrina A. Bakar or better known as Sis Zabrina by her readers is the creator and author of Bestselling Motivational Book Series ‘Life is an Open Secret’. She has authored 3 books and written hundreds of inspirational and motivational stories. All her stories are grounded in spirituality and are based on true life daily happenings. She blogs at www.wisdomthruwords.blogspot.com. And tweets at @ZabrinaABakar
    
Yes Sir, Thank You Very Much!Bismillah As Salaamu 'alaykum and peace to all, Yes Sir, Thank You Very Much!
I was
watching an international news channel the other day and was amazed to see a
group of people talking about the good they’ve done for others.
I was
immediately repulsed but it did make me ponder.
I know we
should always acknowledge those who have helped us, right? Remembering the good
done to us keeps us humble and reminds us to extend this good to others too.
In fact,
a Chinese proverb says,
When
eating bamboo sprouts, remember the man who planted them.
And I totally
agree with this.
This
proverb clearly talks about the recipient of the good deeds, you agree? The one
receiving should always remember the one giving.
This is
gratitude.
It’s much
like being thankful to our parents for raising us, our teachers for teaching us
the basics like A B C to the wisdom of life, friends who are up all night,
listening to our endless songs of joy and sorrow.
Of course
we should always thank them.
In fact,
Prophet Muhammad (may Allaah’s peace and blessings be upon him) instructed us
to thank those who help us when he said,
"He who does not thank people, does not thank Allah." (Ahmad,
Tirmidhi)
SubhanAllah!
He (SAW)
reminded us on the importance of thanking those who have helped us and
conferred favours on us. We should always be grateful.
Of
course, right?
Islam is
a Deen that teaches excellent manners. It is always concerned with human
relationships and how we interact with each other.
But then,
I continue wondering…
Why is it
that not being thankful to a human being equals not being thankful to Allah,
our Lord? Why is thanking a person given so much importance?
This made
me realise something significant …
Obviously,
the only reason one is able to help another is because Allah has allowed him
to. It is by His Grace, His Love, His Mercy and His Permission that we receive
help, assistance and kindness from them. And the so-called favour, help, assistance etc wont happen without Allah’s
Permission. Never. Ever. Ever.
And of course, that particular person was chosen by Allah to deliver His help to us!
And that is why we have to be thankful to the people who has helped us. It is all
clear to me now.
SubhanAllah…
So, my
next question is,
What did
the Prophet (SAW) mean by thanking? Is it merely saying “Thank You” or is there
more?
He (may
Allaah’s peace and blessings be upon him) said,
Whoever does you a favour, then reciprocate, and if
you cannot find anything with which to reciprocate, then pray for him until you
think that you have reciprocated him.
(Narrated by Abu Dawood).
So yes,
we should reciprocate equally. And if we cannot find a way to return the
favour, then the Prophet (SAW) said we should pray for all that is good for
this person, InshaAllah.
And how
should we pray for him?
The
Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said,
“Whoever has a favour done for him and says to
the one who did it, ‘Jazak Allaahu khayran,’ has done enough to thank him.”
(Narrated by al-Tirmidhi & Abu Dawood)
So by
saying JazakAllah Khayran to the person for helping us, sending us gifts,
showing us kindness, doing us favours, we have done enough to thank him.
SubhanAllah…
how beautiful and easy Allah has made it for us to show gratitude, you agree?
By making
duaa for them, by saying JazakAllah Khayran, which means “May Allah reward you
with goodness”, we have done our part in reciprocating them!
And who
best repays favours than The Owner and The Creator of the universe right?
Allah…
But this
is not the point of this story.
The point
here is this – what if the ones who do good deeds are the very ones who remind
us of them? What if they are the ones who constantly and repeatedly demand that
we should remember their deeds? What of those who are given responsibilities
and then demand we thank them for carrying out what was only their duty? What
about them who voluntarily give us gifts, then remind us that we should not
only be thankful but we should repay them?
This made
me question their sincerity and honesty.
I could
not help but wonder if they knew the consequences of their actions.
A hadeeth
from our beloved Prophet Muhammad (may Allaah's peace and blessings be upon
him) crossed my mind,
There are three people that Allaah will not speak to on the Day of Judgement, will not look at them, will not purify them; and for them is a painful punishment: one who lets his Izar hang below his ankles, the Mannan with what he gives, and the Munffiq who does his business with false oaths. (Muslim) (A mannan is one who always reminds others of the favours and good that he has done for them)
Our
beloved Prophet Muhammad (may Allaah’s peace and blessings be upon him) said
that Allaah will not speak to 3 types of people on the Day of Judgement.
He, the
Al Mighty will not speak, will not look, will not purify and will punish these
3 types of people on the Day of Judgement.
And among
these 3 are the people who always speak about the favours and good they do for
others.
Astaghfirullaah, this very statement made my tummy
squirm.
Just
ponder over this.
Isn’t it
scary when the only One who can help us on that Day refuses to not only speak
but even to look at us?
Imagine
Allaah turning away His face from us. Na’uzubillaah….
It would be bad
enough if our parents, friends or even strangers turn away from us right?
But
Allaah our Creator?
Ya Allaah, I beg and seek Your
protection from such a catastrophe.
I feel
sad thinking of the deed-reminders. Are they aware of the severity of their
acts?
Do they know
that they are only able to do all that good because Allaah has allowed them to?
Don’t they realise that they are able to be the upper hand simply because
Allaah has blessed them with the ability to be that? Do they actually think
they could have done it all without Allaah’s permission? Can’t they feel that
far from asking us to thank them, they should be thanking Allaah instead?
Instead
of amplifying themselves, they should be humble in admitting Allaah’s favours
on them and make sincere prayers that their deeds be accepted in the Hereafter.
Instead of glorifying themselves, they should be glorifying Allaah.
I wonder
what do they look for when doing good to others. Name? Fame? Or honour and
respect? Or do they want recognition, credit and admiration? Could they be
looking for appreciation and acknowledgement? Or possibly they want influence,
control and power?
Astaghfirullaah,
astaghfirullaah, astaghfirullaah…
I am
reminded of a powerful quote by Shaykh Muzaffer Ozak.
Let us
think, reflect and ponder over it…
If someone gave you a beautiful, expensive new hat,
wouldn’t you be grateful for the generous gift? But shouldn’t you be even more
grateful for the One Who gave you the head to put that hat on.
Shouldn’t we, my brothers and sisters?
More
importantly, shouldn’t they too?
Think
about it…
Copyright
© Sis Zabrina 2013
Dr Zabrina A. Bakar or better known as Sis Zabrina by her
readers is the creator and author of Bestselling Motivational Book Series ‘Life
is an Open Secret’. She has authored 3 books and written hundreds of inspirational
and motivational stories. All her stories are grounded in spirituality and are
based on true life daily happenings. She blogs at www.wisdomthruwords.blogspot.com.
And tweets at @ZabrinaABakar
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 Sharing Wonderful NewsBismillah
As Salaamu 'alaykum and peace to all, First and foremost, I would like to thank my readers here for your patience with my lack of posting this past months. Your loyalty to keep coming back, and writing to me asking why this Blog has not been updated for so long has really keep me going, honestly. Secondly, I want to share a very happy news with my readers here. A few days back, Alhamdulillah, I just received an email from my University, confirming that I have passed my Doctorate degree, which I have been working on in my months of absence.  So, I guess this explains the slack in Blog posting, right? :) And thirdly, as I have graduated, alhamdulillah, I will now resume my passion for writing stories and will consolidate all my activities which I have put on hold for quite sometime. For all who has been asking about my fourth book, inshaAllah, that is now my main focus. So, keep watching this space as it will begin to get exciting, inshaAllah! Take care all, and JazakAllah khayran and thank you again.. 
Hadith on Hatred: Beware of the diseases of former peoples, Envy and HatredHadith on Hatred: Beware of the diseases of former peoples, Envy and Hatred
Zubayr ibn Awwam رضي الله عنه reported: The Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم said: “The diseases of the former peoples are creeping towards you, envy and hatred, and hatred is the razor. I do not say that it shaves hair, but rather it shaves the religion. And none of you has faith until he loves [for others what he loves for himself]. Shall I tell you what will establish that for you? Spread peace between yourselves.” [Jami At-Tirmidhi, Book 35, Number 2510] أَنَّ الزُّبَيْرَ بْنَ الْعَوَّامِ حَدَّثَهُ أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ دَبَّ إِلَيْكُمْ دَاءُ الْأُمَمِ قَبْلَكُمْ الْحَسَدُ وَالْبَغْضَاءُ هِيَ الْحَالِقَةُ لَا أَقُولُ تَحْلِقُ الشَّعَرَ وَلَكِنْ تَحْلِقُ الدِّينَ وَالَّذِي نَفْسِي بِيَدِهِ لَا تَدْخُلُوا الْجَنَّةَ حَتَّى تُؤْمِنُوا وَلَا تُؤْمِنُوا حَتَّى تَحَابُّوا أَفَلَا أُنَبِّئُكُمْ بِمَا يُثَبِّتُ ذَاكُمْ لَكُمْ أَفْشُوا السَّلَامَ بَيْنَكُمْ 
 The Last Sermon of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him)
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