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Treasure the Moments of Homeschooling Testosterone Armed Teen Boys

I don’t want to sound cliché, but I treasure the moments of homeschooling testosterone armed teen boys.  Thinking back when all the boys were real young, my sis came over to my house one day with her girls, which are about the same age as my boys to discuss how we could join forces to homeschool our kids together. 

When we looked up, my boys were outside in the yard with tree branches fighting and her girls were inside coloring pages, inside the lines no doubt.

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I didn’t speak out loud what I thought of her girls, but she did later about my boys. 

She discussed with me about putting my boys on medication and I silently thought she had beaten the life out of her girls to the point they had no personality or energy either one. 

I didn’t really speak out too because deep down I had a nagging fear that something might actually be wrong with my boys. 

We both had our first glimpse of the opposite gender of which neither one of us had any experience handling.  Fast forward many years later, I never put my boys on medication because I knew as the mom that they were boys.

What does that mean? It means they learn differently than girls when they are young and it means more noticeable differences happen in the teen years. 

Much of my work in disciplining my sons did come when they were younger because I was trying to teach them to sit still when they really needed to wiggle. 

When my sis and I would meet together, I would be the one with my hands full as my time was spent beating my boys, mmmm, I meant settling fights and prodding the boys to complete their work.

As my sons have morphed into the teen years, my work as mentor has not stopped.  It has required more finesse, patience and respect of the fact that they are born with an inward need to exercise authority even over me and a some lot of days that set my not so laid back personality in a frenzy.

Because homeschooling is not just an adventure for my boys, but a journey in learning year by year for me too, I want to share a few things that worked and did not work for me as I homeschool teen boys.

 

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1).  Embrace the differences.  As my middle son, Mr. Awesome approaches completing his high school years, his relationship with me is different than Mr. Senior 2013.  Unlike Mr. Senior 2013, Mr. Awesome wants very clear cut guidelines as to what is expected of him in high school for each year.  So I changed the way I prepared his high school curriculum without giving up some of what his father and I required of him in high school.

For example, with Mr. Senior 2013, we planned his high school together each year.  With Mr. Awesome, I planned for two years and he is taking an online school for the next two years. 

I still have some classes we do together like geography and some history, but he wanted an outside source.  I admit I was a bit disappointed, but then I have to remember that I have hopefully modeled the art of reasonableness and more importantly considered his needs and differences in high school.

Some things have not been different than Mr. Senior 2013 like my middles son’s need to also question my decision making ability now. 

Mr. Senior 2013 and I had many head butting sessions, which only ended with me physically and mentally exhausted.  Having gone through the rooster syndrome with my oldest son, I was a bit more equipped this time with Mr. Awesome. 

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Instead of taking his questioning my authority as a personal assault, I realized his need to start exercising his thinking ability to make good decisions.  If he does not start learning when and how to question decisions now, then how will he be able to make good decisions on his own and then to care for a family later?

Understanding this has helped me a bit more to have patience when I am questioned about every school subject.  It is on the job training for the preparation of the challenges of manhood.

2.) Figure Head of Male Authority a Need.  I sympathize with those single moms, but even they can provide a positive male role model.  It may be their father, uncle or other close friend or family member.  Men just have an unspoken word among themselves when it comes to male bonding time.

It is not that a single mom cannot homeschool a testosterone packing teen, but it sure makes her job easier to have a male figure to turn to.

In all my worry, both of my sons lapped up the influence by my husband and his time as he models the kind of men I want my sons to become.

Too, my husband is able to help my sons to accept the fact that as mom, they need to learn how to accept my authority. 

Applying this to homeschooling has not always been easy, but I try to do my part in always listening to what each of my sons have to say no matter how trivial it may seem.

Admitting that I too make mistakes and want them to learn to make capable decisions independent of a woman (though always listening to sound advice by either a man or woman) has always been a good stepping stone to them completing assignments or subjects that my husband and I have planned for them.

This goes back to appreciating the fact that they are a different gender and their need to exercise domination and independence is such an intrinsic part of homeschooling each day. 

It is hard to separate the parenting from homeschooling during the teen years.

3.) Create A World Separate From Yours.  Again I noticed the slight differences between my teen boys when it comes to having other teen friends and have had to adjust to their needs.  Mr. Senior 2013 was more content with just a few friends though he still needed a sphere of friends outside of our family.

Mr. Awesome on the other hand has a stronger need for more socialization with teens.  He has a more-the-merrier attitude when it comes to other teens and even other people.

Creating opportunities for both my sons to interact with both teen boys and girls has been some of the hardest work on my part beyond academics. 

Our homeschool co-op, church activities, fun sports and group field trips just for teens have been some of my best life saving tips to fill my boys need for the right kind of association.

Coming up in more articles about how to homeschool teen boys, I will be sharing specific curriculum that clicked better for us and more specifics as to how boys learn.

Your turn. Have you hit a brick wall when homeschooling your tween or teen boy?  What tips work for you?

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5 Things I Love About Cuenca Ecuador

(Warning: Picture overload again. I got a little giddy about sharing another post about our new home in South America because I want you to see all that we are learning about.)

The house hunt is over!  We have been so impatient in finding time to explore Ecuador, but had to focus on finding a home.  But in the few short weeks we have lived here, I have discovered a lot I like.  Today in 5 things I love about Cuenca, Ecuador, I wanted to share a few of them.

1) Schedule Luv.  Once you leave the schedule treadmill of the United States, you see that a lot of countries have more laid back schedules. 

Oh sure, we heard about the manana attitude here and for the most part we have adopted it too.

Do you remember the time when stores actually closed on Sunday and spent time with their families?  It’s that way here.  The only place I know in the states that closes on Sundays still is Chick-Fil-A.

A few stores are open and the “gringo mall”, Mall Del Rio, is open too.  But the few stores that are open, close early too on Sunday. 

The first Sunday or two caught us off guard, but after that we now know to have a quiet meal at the room or grab something earlier in the day for later.

We were wondering too why we see more of these play horses on Sunday.  Ecuadorians spend their time with their families and they bring their kids to the park to ride these “rides” and spend time in the park.

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2) Food Luv.  The food is amazing here and especially lunch.  Lunch is normally a drink, soup, main entrée and dessert.  It can cost anywhere from 1.50 to 5.75. 

Now I warn you that some of the $1.50 places we have seen, I would rather skip their entrees as I don’t eat intestines (sorry, but I just had to tell you).

The first week or so we ate the traditional grilled chicken and rice, but then after that we have investigated the other food here. 

Oh yes, I have found one of my favorites, which is Mexican food too. 

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(charming restaurant for Mexican food where you have to walk through a patio

El Pedregal Azteca Restaurant)

Since there aren’t any preservatives here, all the food is delicious.  It truly makes a difference in how it tastes.

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At one of our favorite restaurants I mentioned in my last post, Don Colon, is owned by a man and wife that spend part of their time in the states and part of their time in Ecuador. 

The owner and chef makes all of his juices with bottled water.  So we have been enjoying all the variety of delicious home made fruit juices which is what they have for breakfast, lunch and dinner.

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(Mr. Awesome having no problem adopting the local pineapple juice.)

3) Shopping Luv.  I love having choices when it comes to shopping.  If I want convenience, there is a chain (actually I heard it’s from the United States) called SuperMaxi.  

Then of course, if you want really good prices, then shopping off the street from the different vendors is the way to go.

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Quail eggs for breakfast anybody?

(Modern meets Old World)

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(or you can buy from one of these nice ladies)

4) History Luv.  Of course you know my love for history and geography and there are so many exploring ventures that we want to take that I feel like an out of control child here. 

Everywhere I turn, there is something else we want to do. We have started with learning about the town first.

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(Bus tour)

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(Beautiful rivers through town and the architect is stunning to look at each day.)

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(Of course, we never get tired of people watching.  The skirts of the women are suppose to tell what region they are from.  We are still trying to figure that one out.)

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Of course when the kids find something they recognize, they want me to take a picture of it for you.  I guess BigMac is universal in any language.

I spotted Payless shoes the other day when I went down the wrong road.

5) Field Trip Luv.  We have been catching up on and making up with lots of field trips.  Today, we spent time at the hat museum. 

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Did you know that the Panama hats do not originate from Panama, but from Ecuador?  It’s just that Panama figured out first how to export them.  And Ecuadorians are proud of their hats and hat history!!

Here at the equator, a good hat is a must because the top of your head becomes sunburned before you realize it.

I am hoping to have pictures soon of the house we will be renting while we are here and then we will be taking some more trips outside of the city too.

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5 Days of Learning Printables:The World of Columbus and Sons Day 4 For Middle and High School

Today’s printables in my series 5 Days of Learning Printables:The World of Columbus and Sons 5 Days of Learning Printables:The World of Columbus and Sons Day 4 For Middle and High School Day 4 For Middle and High School are from Part I. When Columbus Was a Boy (1451 – 1474), Lesson 3 and from Part II. When Columbus was in Portugal and Spain (1474 – 1492) Lesson 4.

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For studying Lesson 3, I prepared a minibook to tell about Ferdinand and Isabella and how they united Spain through their marriage.

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Download here Isabella of Castile and Ferdinand of Aragon

For studying Part II. When Columbus was in Portugal and Spain  (1474 – 1492) Lesson 4, two more characters of that time period are introduced which are Marco Polo and Ptolemy.

I have included a minibook on each one.

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And don’t forget I have a huge Renaissance Unit Study and Glass Blowing Unit Study that will enhance your study of The World of Columbus and Sons.

Renaissance 1300 to 1600 Unit Study

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If you didn’t grab the printables from Days 1, 2 and 3 you can get them below:

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Making Each Day Count When Homeschooling

Beginning the journey of a lifetime when starting to homeschool, we seem to have superhuman strength and a dogged determination.  But then, each new year rolls around and we are faced with making each day count when homeschooling. 

It’s not the starting homeschooling that makes us feel defeated, but it’s the constant stopping and starting throughout the year that is sabotaging a school day.

Some things are out of our control like a sick baby, a sick momma and sometimes dad’s crazy work schedule that throws us off our pace. 

Let’s not beat ourselves up over things that we can’t control, but sometimes even those days are not a complete loss in making some headway for the day. 

Don’t Put It Off to the Future

Homeschooling with Challenges.  One of the things that held me back from attempting to cover something for the day was to realize that perfect circumstances don’t really exist. 

Waiting for the perfect day to happen, I missed out on seizing challenging moments because I couldn’t do everything in my curriculum planner.  I felt I was doing half-hearted homeschooling. 

Accepting what I could do for the day when a circumstance threatened the day would have caused a few less bitter homeschooling days for me.

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Accepting the Circumstances.  When my idea of what a homeschooling day should look like and reality collided, I see that I could have adjusted more easily if I had just simply accepted the change.  This is hard to do for a scheduler type of personality.

For example, when my husband worked a crazy work schedule or had to be out of town for a long period of time, I could have simply had a read aloud day.  That would have been the perfect time to catch up on some reading.

When both the kids and I were tired trying to keep up with my husband’s changing work schedule, we could have slept in and planned a field trip for the day.

Meeting the Challenge

Avoid All or Nothing Days.  Another key to not completely stopping and then starting up again is to lose the mind-set that each day has to be an all or nothing day. 

If your personality is more laid back and you are a respond to the moment teacher, then you may have an easier time accepting changing circumstances.  Again, because I like to plan, it was harder for me to accept those things out of my control. 

Looking back now, though you can’t see it at the time, I was my own worst enemy.  It’s just that you realize that being organized allows us to make good use of our time. 

However, setting unrealistic expectations and not accepting the present moment sets you up for burnout too and homeschool disillusionment.  It’s that feeling of being disappointed because we think homeschooling is not as good as thought it was.

Soon we may regret homeschooling and that is where the bitter homeschool days come in.  As you can see, if we don’t accept what we can’t control, it can have devastating results.

Homeschooling When Sick.  I think the hardest times, once I determined that my days were not a complete loss when something unplanned came up, are homeschooling through sicknesses. 

When I had more than one child sick, then I called off school.  But I have found that when one child is sick or if I am sick that homeschooling for the day was a relief. 

Having activities lined up for sick days beforehand is essential.

Back before Netflix (I am not real ancient I promise), I would buy tapes about history or science at the homeschool conventions.  Too, I would look for museum quality educational coloring books like Edupress  Making Each Day Count When Homeschoolingor Dover Making Each Day Count When Homeschooling and buy board games. 

Special art projects and art supplies were also part of my arsenal that I stocked up on. 

But I would hold all of them back, in what I call my Mary Poppins bag only to pull them out when I needed them throughout the year.  Keeping all the goodies a surprise from the kids is key to them being something that will keep their attention for the day when you need it most.

As soon as I purchased those things, I would hide them and put them away when the kids were occupied.  It’s sounds crazy, but it’s almost like they looked forward to the days when I was sick because they would get something new.

One year at the end of summer, I stocked up on games that were meant to be played inside during the long hot summer months.  Of course that is not the reason I bought them. 

For example, I bought an indoor mini croquet set.  All of the pieces, the balls, mallets and stakes were lightweight and made to be played indoors.  When I had morning sickness when pregnant with my third son, I pulled the set out for my two sons and they played indoors while I was hanging out in the bathroom.

They had no idea they didn’t miss a day on strengthening their gross motor skills and I got my much needed rest.

Buying a pail and shovel at the end of summer that is suppose to be used at the beach made for great indoor play in a plastic pool that I filled with rice, beans or indoor sand during the winter. 

Your imagination is the only limit to creating hangouts at your house when you need them.

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Taking the kids to the park to study so the Mr. could have the house quiet to sleep in are some of my fondest memories of them when they were little. 

Of course grabbing some of their favorite food at the time like hotdogs, which we ate on special occasions made it more special too.

Seasons of Adventure

Now with iPads and tablets, finding an activity is much easier. 

I still prefer activities, like board games, where my children have to interact with each other instead of an iPad.  But it’s a relief to have options from our iPad too because you can purchase board game apps, like Monopoly for a group to play too.

Though it took me a while to expect the unexpected, some of our best homeschool moments of learning were ones that I have not planned.  I learned that the constant stopping and starting was sabotaging my teaching efforts. 

And despite what I thought at the time, I could push on through the interruptions.  Besides, I would have missed out some of our fondest memories so far in homeschooling. 

Don’t pass up the opportunity to make each day special in homeschooling, you won’t regret it.

Hugs and love ya,

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